The importance of a woman is not just in her beauty but in the character of God that lies within her. God created you the way you are because he had a very important assignment for you. One of that assignment is over your husband.You are so unique and peculiar in your own way, because in the mind of your creator, he created you so wonderfully, you fit perfectly into his plan and purpose.
Your marriage is one of of God’s plan for creating you, you can never appreciate the role God called you to play in the life of your husband in the context of your marriage, if you find his plan for your marriage. There is a question in the life of your husband that only you answer, until this is done, your husband may never achieve success, or don’t you remember the word of our creator in Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So, if you do not appreciate what God said concerning you in this scripture you may never fulfill your assignment to your husband.
Woman of purpose, I want you to see how important you are to your husband? wake up right now and begin to fulfill your assignment in his life. How do you feel; seeing your husband go through terrible times just because of your nonchalant attitude to your assignment in his life. Many women today are driving their husbands crazy just because of this factor (negligence of duty).
No other woman can take your place in the life of the man God sent you to, if this is true, woman wake up and fulfill your assignment. By not responding to your role in his life as a helpmeet, you create a void in his life that only you can fill.
HOW TO FULFILL PURPOSE.
BE HIS FRIEND. Prov. 18:24 and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. This is the picture of who you should be to your husband. You are not just anybody, but a precious friend at all times. Are you his friend? You must give your husband the benefit of doubt that you are a trusted friend, someone he should be sure cares for him. No matter the challenges you may be experiencing, try talking things over with him. Assure him you’re there for him. Let him know you understand what he is going through. Can your husband call you his friend? You are his wife. For perfect joy to reign in your home and if you want to succeed in your assignment, you must demonstrate genuine love to your husband.
YOU MUST LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY.
For you to accomplish your assignment over your husband, you must love him as God instructed you, because without love you can’t be a submissive helpmeet.You are married to your husband for a purpose. All successful marriages today are built on a solid foundation of friendship and love, all other factors come under this two. I am asking you dear friend, do you really love your husband?
Prov 14:1, every wise woman builds her house. In order for you to build a good home, you need wisdom to manage your marriage well.
I pray for you today that God will give you Grace and Wisdom to accomplish your assignment over your your husband. God bless you.
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Pastor Becky Efetobor is an Marriage Counsellor, Motivational Speaker, Singles Coach, Trainer, Investor and Businesswoman. She has Marriage, Singles and Christian Women Investing Blog where She writes informative articles on Christian Marriage, Investment for Christian Women, Singles Related Issues and other Vital aspect of Life Application Visit: http://purposewoman.blogspot.com for more information.
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