Is Woman Born For….. What Purpose?

August 20, 2008 - No Responses
Being laze, I picked this one article from Ezines. This article is written by deeply religious woman, with a Blogger Blog called “Purpose woman”. If you are deeply religious and want some brain washing dig in. At least you can feel good about your self being sucker. It is so comforting to surrender to goods will, isn’t it?

Whit a writing talent this women have, it would be so powerful to have her write about justice, inequality, health care crisis, about empowering women as individuals with purpose to make this world better for all. To bad.
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Born For A Purpose

The importance of a woman is not just in her beauty but in the character of God that lies within her. God created you the way you are because he had a very important assignment for you. One of that assignment is over your husband.You are so unique and peculiar in your own way, because in the mind of your creator, he created you so wonderfully, you fit perfectly into his plan and purpose.

Your marriage is one of of God’s plan for creating you, you can never appreciate the role God called you to play in the life of your husband in the context of your marriage, if you find his plan for your marriage. There is a question in the life of your husband that only you answer, until this is done, your husband may never achieve success, or don’t you remember the word of our creator in Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So, if you do not appreciate what God said concerning you in this scripture you may never fulfill your assignment to your husband.

Woman of purpose, I want you to see how important you are to your husband? wake up right now and begin to fulfill your assignment in his life. How do you feel; seeing your husband go through terrible times just because of your nonchalant attitude to your assignment in his life. Many women today are driving their husbands crazy just because of this factor (negligence of duty).

No other woman can take your place in the life of the man God sent you to, if this is true, woman wake up and fulfill your assignment. By not responding to your role in his life as a helpmeet, you create a void in his life that only you can fill.

HOW TO FULFILL PURPOSE.

BE HIS FRIEND. Prov. 18:24 and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. This is the picture of who you should be to your husband. You are not just anybody, but a precious friend at all times. Are you his friend? You must give your husband the benefit of doubt that you are a trusted friend, someone he should be sure cares for him. No matter the challenges you may be experiencing, try talking things over with him. Assure him you’re there for him. Let him know you understand what he is going through. Can your husband call you his friend? You are his wife. For perfect joy to reign in your home and if you want to succeed in your assignment, you must demonstrate genuine love to your husband.

YOU MUST LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY.

For you to accomplish your assignment over your husband, you must love him as God instructed you, because without love you can’t be a submissive helpmeet.You are married to your husband for a purpose. All successful marriages today are built on a solid foundation of friendship and love, all other factors come under this two. I am asking you dear friend, do you really love your husband?

Prov 14:1, every wise woman builds her house. In order for you to build a good home, you need wisdom to manage your marriage well.

I pray for you today that God will give you Grace and Wisdom to accomplish your assignment over your your husband. God bless you.

You can have access to other informative and impactful articles at http://purposewoman.blogspot.com

Pastor Becky Efetobor is an Marriage Counsellor, Motivational Speaker, Singles Coach, Trainer, Investor and Businesswoman. She has Marriage, Singles and Christian Women Investing Blog where She writes informative articles on Christian Marriage, Investment for Christian Women, Singles Related Issues and other Vital aspect of Life Application Visit: http://purposewoman.blogspot.com for more information.

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Low of Attraction won’t benefit me!

July 4, 2008 - No Responses

I am angry, I am defensive, I am in debt and law of attraction is just making it worse.

Low of attraction works in such a way that it attracts to you only the stuff you think about most, are able to visualize best and feel strongest about. Bingo, there is the reason for mine and 95% of all human population misery.

Is there a hope? Sure there is. Hope is keeping us alive, but you know what…..hope we have are called wishful thinking. What does it mean? Let say you are leaving in a fear, defeat, poverty, struggle infested circumstances. You heard and than learned about laws of attraction, you wrote down couple of affirmations, you got your hopes up.

You start practicing positive affirmations, but nothing changes. In fact lots gets worse. You give up defeated again. You are to deep in it to change. There is no time you can set in stone to meditate and practice regularly at the same time at the same place. Your house and your circumstances are to chaotic. Waiting for these to change is again trough law of attraction fruitless because your involvement is to deep so you will attract just more of the same.

In order to brake out and change you have to brake out and leave. You have to turn your back on what it is in hope to find what you want to archive with your intended affirmations. You have to destroy all the bridges to old, you have to clean your life to turn it around. But this is exactly what you can not do. You may be able to break free from the current situation, and many do just to find them self in another one similar to it or worse. Why? Because you took your self with you.

If you can find a way to leave your fears, your prejudices, your old self behind and start like infant again, you may do what ever you want. In that case you don’t have to leave. But how can you do that? You can’t.

There is a saying that if someone ask you who you are and you are able to change your answer, you will change your life. Nice saying in deed. Just not achievable for me and is probably not possible for you either.

Hence, Low of attraction is great and it works, just it doesn’t work in my favor.